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Mental health services in the UK have always been hard to access. In the last past 5 years, they can no longer meet the needs of the increasing numbers of suffering individuals. The recuring question is "Why are more people diagnosed with depression/ADHD/ BPD?" So, what is happening?

John - Paul ford Rojas recently wrote in The Daily Mail: "Britain is suffering its longest sick note epidemic for 25 years as 2.7MILLION people claim they are too ill to work and holding back the country's economic growth in the process" Please, read: "People claim they are too ill to work" Meaning: "They are lying and work shy." "Holding the economy back:" Meaning:" The current disastrous state of the economy is the fault of all those liars and work shy individuals." All following the popular retheorises. Take Mel Stride, for instance who declared: "Mental health culture has gone too far." And "Normal anxiety life are being labelled as an illness."

For 13 years, under a Conservative government. people suffering with mental illnesses, have been subjected to increasing abuse and mistreatment, in the forms of Work Capability Assessments, the creation of Universal Credit, with a long process to get first payments, penalising individuals for minor errors, placing them into distressing living and emotional conditions; some losing their lives waiting for support and care, others dying by suicide, pushed to their limits.

UN warns UK government 'demonises' disabled people with 'onerous' benefits system: "Rosemary Kayess, the chair of UNCRPD, said: "We see a reform agenda that is framed in a political narrative that demonises disabled people, including proposals to cut disability benefits to reward working people by cutting taxes, which tells disabled people they are undeserving citizens." Later, She adds: "Reforms within social welfare benefits are premised on a notion that disabled people are undeserving and skiving off and defrauding the system. This has resulted in hate speech and hostility towards disabled people." Indeed hate speech and hostility towards disabled people has never been higher.

The constant dehumanization of disabled people has been brough a few times now, to the UN but, no concrete actions have been put in place for change. As the general Election approached, it is clear what Labour and Conservative parties are planning further attacks on their most vulnerable citizens - anyone who is sick, living in poverty, and unemployed. Liz Kendall, Labour's Shadow Work Secretary declared, on the 4th of March 2024: " Under Labour party, if you can work there will be no options of a life on benefits." The Standard read as follow: "Labour has promised tougher measures on handing out benefits payments as it sets out plans to reduce the number of young people out of work, education or training."  If their promise is to support young people to get easier access to work, or apprenticeships , that is great but, "Labour has promised tougher measure on handling out benefits" feels like more unnecessary punishment and pressure instead of  making sure, these young vulnerable adults have a safe and supportive system in place while they work things out and heal. There are plans for DWP to have access to benefits' claimants bank accounts, just to make sure they aren't lying and committing fraud.

The standards of living in the UK has seriously plummeted, with "The Cost of Living Crisis", ever increasing food, bills, mortgage/ rent etc..., Even those who work can't afford a descent life style. Working doesn't pay enough anymore. Getting into University, puts young adults in debt for most of their lives and no longer guaranties a good job/ life. There is a constant fear of becoming homeless, of losing everything; which all creates stress, anxiety and depression and trauma for parents and their children. Stressed and unhappy parents make stressed and unhappy children. People are struggling to survive: how can they be fully present for their children? These situations creates Attachment Trauma. Small and big kids not getting what they need more than anything: loving, caring and available parents. These little ones will grow up with difficulties such as ADHD, depression, anxiety., and more. They will be labelled as difficult, attention seeking, childish.

Adults survivors of child abuse (whether mental, emotional, physical and/or sexual abuse.) have already been through hell, trying to managed a life of total despair. If some get out of the abusive parental home/ or care setting, in one piece, they will have more difficulties than others to build their adult life. Some will fit well into society - workaholism, being forever busy,  are also trauma responses, which are celebrated, but, still, these individuals are left alone to carry their pain. Society doesn't mind nor cares if you are struggling, as long as you can play the rat race game, even to the detriment of your health and happiness.

For those whose trauma manifests as depression, anxiety and lethargy: having great difficulties to even go out the in the world, feeling frozen in fear and in sadness, with no one to turn to, and for those dealing with inflammatory illnesses, with chronic pain as well as mental illness, who really can't "actively participate in the economy", they are doomed to suffer even more. They are dealing with having to beg for emotional and financial support they need and deserve. They are more likely to be dismissed by GP or so called mental health experts. They are constantly bullied in the news, in the papers and in politicians' speeches. They are hunted down and pushed to death by DWP - IT IS BULLYING AND PERSECUTION.

Suicide rate rise in England “very concerning, says charity." Nic Paton wrote, on  8 Apr 2024, for Occupational Health Plus. "In all, 5,579 suicides were registered in England in 2023. In response, the mental health charity Mind has called the figures “very concerning”. Jen Walters, Mind executive director of social change, said: “Even one suicide is one too many. The causes of suicide are many, complex, and vary from one person to another." She added: “What we do know is we are still feeling the seismic effects from the pandemic, and the cost-of-living crisis is continuing to have a devastating impact on society. We must do much more to reverse this.”

 You can read about my own experience of suffering with mental illness, as a result of severe child abuse, which was labelled as BPD,  and how it has affected my work life, on the page - About Sylvie. Suffice to say the messages we are receiving through the media - social, newspapers and News - as well as from politicians: "You are lazy. You are not wanted here. Everything is your fault and you deserve your "lifestyle". You are useless to us. You are just pretending to be ill, so you don't have to work." resonates strongly with the words I grew up hearing, from my biggest bully: my own mother. It is triggering, cruel and abusive.

Take gentle care of yourselves - it isn't easy to live in a such a cruel society.

Sylvie

You can read:

 - The Office of National Statistics' latest release, Suicides in England and Wales Statistical bulletins

- On Winter Turns into Spring: The impact our environment has on our mental health.

- I tell my story in The Blossoming Lotus